MY THOUGHTS: MEANING OF LIFE & HAPPINESS

Me Feeling Philosophical: About Mind, Happiness and Meaning of Life

I was having a conversation about life and happiness altogether with my friend. I wondered how nice it would see good friends after a long time and to catch up with them. But then we started to really look deeper, if actually the case was that people in depth really were interested in other peoples lives. I made the conclusion that people generally are only interested what is happening in their own lives and what is effecting and having what consequences.

Happiness is a whole different ballgame but still very simple to archive and obtain. Happiness although is not a destination, it is a state of mind – mood. This is why happiness itself is so much easier to discover in everyday life also. Because the term is so wide and hard to define, for every individual it means different things in life. After this I got to my conclusion:

The meaning of life is the constant defraud of oneself.

I want to point out that I am now precisely talking about how to picture happiness and positive feelings in life (presented via my own personal view of course). I could write more how I think is being happy or feeling happiness our biggest function and task in our life – but I want to skip that and maybe comment that some other time. But for now, yes – we should think that feeling good, happy and euphoric are the reason we work, talk, love and for towards those state of minds we actually live.

Because I experience ultimate happiness through different situations and memories, I can only maintain that small euphoric feeling but defrauding myself constantly in everyday life. If you really are mentally strong enough you can set your mind on a mode, where this peaceful and happy feeling is being kept alive continuously, creating after the day that you are actually happy and in peace with yourself and the environment around you. Now, what I mean by that you have to have a strong mind is that if there is many functions or fields bothering you, it is much harder to re-maintain that ongoing feeling purely. Some issues in your personal life can really set you in different state of minds and after something dramatic it is very difficult sometimes to come to terms with your inner happiness and peace again. Time might help, others need the environment to be pure for the problems or persons affecting negative feelings.

Mind gets stronger – so after every breakdown it recovers itself more quickly than last time. I also think that you have hidden strength in your mind. It can be really surprisingly strong in situations were you think that it might not keep up. That is of course, in straight entity with your inner strength.

Because tomorrow is now, and destiny won’t wait – everything matters ’cause everything effects on something and we have to create our own destiny – only remember in the way, that because everything is united entity, karma really is a bitch!

This is the second set that I came up with (yes, the first sentence might be inspired from a song – but it truly see the wisdom in those words). There is no yesterday, now or tomorrow. Our time is all continual concept that is really hard for define. I believe there is not better tomorrow because the time or period or date is irrelevant. We just are now, like we had been some “time” before. Still, I think there is some wicked destiny chosen for everyone individually beforehand, but I think that what the destiny will be is being created and modified along the way. Every decision, every word said and not said counts. Everything affects on everything in different impact volume.

Do I believe in karma? Of course, I believe that destiny and karma are totally different things but they work really closely and are also in straight influence with each other. Karma works before and this is how it impacts and modifies destiny at the same time. Not to get religious or anything, but do unto others what you want done unto you is seriously the law of karma and stimulus for destiny.

For this said, as you can see I am not offering any solution of harsh views what is right and correct, I just presented ways I see life and some aspects of it. Any thoughts? What kind of life meanings people have there, share!

Yes, I think. A LOT. Too Much.

(originally published FEBRUARY 25, 2013  at Christine W Private Blog Wordpress,)